My 12-year-old son searched for “son and mother sex videos” online. What should I do?

Should I let my tween use the Kik messenger app?

October 12, 2016

Q: Would you allow an 11-year-old child to use the Kik app? I say “no”, but would like to know your thoughts – thanks! ~ Kik Me, Annapolis, MD A: Dear KM, Parenting in the 21st Century includes deciding how to manage children’s screen media use, which means many different decisions about issues from television […]

How can I protect my child from inappropriate comments online?

August 19, 2016

Q: How do you deal with racism, vulgarity, and hatred found in comment sections, even on websites hosting material that is appropriate for my child like YouTube or educational coding websites? ~Troll Fighter, Grand Rapids, MI A: Dear TF, This is a great question, and one I’m sure anyone who has ever scrolled through an online […]

How should clinicians diagnose patients with “Internet Addiction”?

April 12, 2016

Q: I am a clinician who teaches psychiatry at a major medical school, where I lead a class on assessment and diagnosis of mental health and behavioral disorders. Recently my students asked me what kind of diagnosis one should give to designate Internet Addiction. What is the current understanding and clinical best practice? ~ Befuddled […]

Should I give my tween twins smartphones?

February 1, 2016

Q: I have a set of twins, ages 11 soon to be 12. My son has Asperger’s Syndrome and my daughter has ADHD.  They both have a natural affinity for screens and are very rule-oriented.  My daughter very much wants a smartphone, as “everyone” at middle school has one and she wants to fit the […]

My 11-year-old daughter masturbates while watching porn, what should I do?

December 28, 2015

Q: I just caught my daughter watching porn. She is 11 years old and told me that she masturbates while watching. Will having orgasms at 11 affect her future? ~  The Big Uneasy,  USA A: Dear Big, While I am sure this was a worrying experience for you, remember that your daughter, like all healthy […]

My 11-year-old is addicted to Minecraft, what should I do?

December 22, 2015

Q: My 11-year-old daughter is addicted to the game Minecraft. During the week it doesn’t seem to be a problem as she is busy with sports and homework. However, during the weekends she has a lot more free time and tends to spend hours playing Minecraft. What would be the amount of time that you […]

Is technology decreasing kids’ ability to communicate face-to-face?

October 23, 2015

Q: As a mother and a student examining media as a social issue, I’m concerned that technology is decreasing youth’s ability to communicate face-to-face, largely because most of their communication and activities are done through a screen. Is there evidence for this concern? ~  Face Facts, Bridgeport, CT A: Dear Face, Young people walk hand […]